Intentional Living

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I noticed a while back that I seemed to just be existing. I want intentionally present. We have always tried to put our phones/tablets/ TVs away when we have J and be attentive and active with him, but now that I'm home with C full time, I've been finding it even more difficult to live intentionally. Honestly, I do quite a bit on my phone. Price checking, product reviewing, researching, making lists, putting together recipes, staying in contact with friends, finding music, even writing blog posts. I unwind on social media or by reading articles. I take pictures and look through them later. But how much is too much screen time as an adult? Do I want my kids to see me with my nose buried in a screen? Do I want to set that as an example of how to live?? No. I 100% do not want that to be the example I set.

So my new goal is to practice living intentionally. Essentially, choosing life. Not just existing. Putting the phone down and being present with my family.

Blog post done, phone being put down!

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